Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Amy Amy Amy

Had a pretty uneventful day yesterday, although was very happy that I managed to get two tickets for Amy Winehouse's gig at The Junction next month. This will be my birthday pressie to myself (as is shortly before) ;-) Last year we saw her play an acoustic set there, and she blew us away... am hoping we will not be disappointed this time as expectations are high!


I also ordered her latest album Back to Black, and The Last Town Chorus's new album (much anticipated by me, as it has an amazing rendition of Bowie's song Modern Love on it - you can download it in full from the website).


Last night did very little, again! I cooked a thai curry for Mark and I, and we walked to the local for a couple of pints. We shouldn't have bothered really as Mark was too tired to hold a proper conversation (grunts and scowls ensued), so we didn't stay out long!


Tonight I have netball, and Emma is going to join me. This will be my first bit of exercise since the holiday (well... since before I went on holiday!), so it is no doubt going to come as a bit of a shock! Particularly considering the weather - it is cold, grey and pretty dismal today (it looks like it is almost dark outside, and it is lunch time!). The running club seems to have fallen into disarray since my departure (the shower in the office has broken, and provided most with an excuse for not attending). To be honest I am not in the mood to reinstate it at the moment, but am hoping that by next week I will be back to my sargeant major self, and pulling the troops back into line (with the help of some of the keener runners, who are also away this week.... errr... perhaps this explains my own lack of motivation! heh).


Mark has got Noel over tonight, so after netball I am cooking myself a yummy steak whilst they go out for their curry... :-)


Anyway... happy Halloween... this is a picture of my Mum who has for the first time ever in my memory, fully embraced Halloween (for little Henry's sake, of course!). To be honest this outfit freaked my sister and I out at the weekend!! ;-)


Much love,
Hayley
xxx

Monday, October 30, 2006

Weekenders

Hey... had an entirely pleasant, if uneventful, weekend. Friday night was very brief actually... I went to the giant Tesco, cooked dinner, and we went to bed with our books at about 9:30! How old are we?

Mark was up early Saturday, and I laid in bed reading for a couple of hours. Did some cleaning around the house, and met up with Adele for a walk into the village and a coffee in The Red Lion (very cosy pub for the autumn!). In the afternoon, I drove home to my parents and went out in the evening for a 'girl's dinner'. This included myself (obviously), Mum, Tracy (and Oscar of course), Nanny, Alison and Megan... all very pleasant. We ate in a rather nice pizza/pasta stylee restaurant in Beccles (believe it or not!). It's very similar to Pizza Express, and is unbelievably sophisticated for Beccles! ;-) I had a rather delicious, calamari, chicken and asparagus risotto, and honeycomb cheesecake! Oscar was really well behaved all evening, and didn't even cry once...

Tracy seemed in fairly good spirits, considering... although am concerned by her possible reaction to Sam's plans to go on holiday with his woman. I'm not sure how Tracy will cope with that - I know that I wouldn't! However, it may be good for her to get a break from him for a week (if indeed he goes - he seems to be dithering over it).

On Sunday, we (me, Mum, Dad, Tracy, Henry, Megan and Oscar) headed to Tracy's new house to look at the progress (coming along - the new kitchen is in!), and then took the dogs along the beach and drank coffee in a couple of the tea houses on the seafront. In the afternoon I went to see Nanny and Grandad, to help Grandad out with his PC... Drove home in the evening, and cooked Mark and I a spicy pasta sauce thing to use up the veggies in our veggie box...

See - I told you it was uneventful!!! ;-)
Much love
Hayls
xxxx

Friday, October 27, 2006

An Open and Shut Case

Well... the cases turned up in the middle of a howling gale at around 9:30pm last night... most unexpected, but entirely welcome! Have never been so relieved to see my dirty washing after a holiday, and already looking at the stuff makes the holiday seem like an age ago! I can't believe its only Friday, and on Monday we were languishing on a hot beach...

Last night we had a very sedate evening. I read my book (Life and Death in Shanghai), which I am totally and utterly absorbed by; it really gives an insight into 1960s-70s China, and helped me to reflect on some of the things I saw there and the people. I cooked Mark Pizza, but didn't really fancy any dinner myself (I *must* be ill!), and we were asleep by 10pm!

Am looking into a letting agent to deal with my house, I think. I just can't face sorting it out privately, unless of course to friends.

Not got too much planned for the weekend. May go out for dinner with Tracy tomorrow night, and spend the day with my pares on Sunday. Mark is working all weekend. which is a bit of a downer for me - back to Earth with a bump!

Anyway... back to the grind.
Hayls
xxxxx

Thursday, October 26, 2006

Thai Bow

Well... here we go for the final installment of my trip...

PS. Jet lag is still pretty bad - was wide awake at 3am today, and feeling groggy today... and still no sign of suitcases in Cambridge... ah well! ;-)

Akwa Guest House, Chewang Beach, Koh Samui Island, Thailand - Tuesday 17th October - Monday 23rd October
Tuesday
Woke up on this day with a really really painful cricked neck (was in tears on waking) and had to face a long and arduous journey to Koh Samui (a tuk-tuk, two planes, some ridiculous shenanigans in the now much-hated Suvarnabhumi airport in Bangkok, and a taxi to the Akwa guest house in Chewang beach).

The hotel more than made up for the hateful journey - lovely air conditioned place, with really comfy beds, kitschy pop-art all over the walls, bunches of fresh orchids all over the room, nice staff, and a DVD player in our room (with access to a library of films for free in reception!). The only draw-back was the incredibly steep stairs we had to haul our cases up to to get to the room... That evening we walked along the beach (1 minute walk away), got a nice dinner at a quiet hotel on the beach, and went back to the room and watched "Flight Plan" on DVD in bed before getting an early night...

Wednesday
Chewang is a fairly chaotic little resort, full of t-shirt shops and Indian tailors (trying to get you to buy one of their packages for as little as £40 - 2 handmade suits to measure, with three shirts and a coat etc... for a pittance!). If I had had room in my case, and more patience, I would have had a dress made to measure... We did the shops in the morning, and then settled in the beach for the day (gorgeous beach, and lovely warm sea). In the evening we went to a fairly posh restaurant on the beach called Eat Sense, which served really nice fresh Thai food in a nice setting...

Thursday
We hired a jeep (for just £10 for the day!), and drove around the island in it... this only takes a couple of hours, but we stopped for lunch at Big Buddha beach (lovely seafood fried rice in the most dodgy looking restaurant overlooking the bay) and made a day of it... got back to the room and watched another DVD ("Finding Neverland", which was fab), and in the evening went for another nice meal in the restaurant on the beach that we went to the first night...

Our trip in the jeep also enabled us to find our next port of call... the Golden Sands beach resort in Limai beach (a quieter resort than Chewang).

Friday
A free taxi picked us up to take us to the new hotel; which turned out to be a clean, and fairly basic chalet type thingy right on the beach front, beside the pool. We spent the day on the beach, swimming in the sea/pool and reading books... in the evening we went to a restaurant a couple of doors down from our hotel, and (quelle surprise) had a nice dinner on the beach!

Saturday, Sunday and Monday
These days were all spent in and around the Golden Sands beach resort, eating and drinking in local bars and restaurants in Lamai, and generally chilling out! We watched some football matches on Saturday and Sunday, and on Saturday I had a manicure and pedicure, and some traditional Thai massage (my god - it did the cricked neck some good when she walked up my spine! :-s)... On the last afternoon we met a really nice couple called Tracy and Richard (from Blackpool) and idled away our last few hours with them (drinking beer and sheltering from the only really bad storm we had in our time there). Was such a shame for us to leave Monday night!

The journey home was fairly uneventful, aside from yet another screw up at the god-forsaken Suvarnabhumi airport in Bangkok (deep breaths)... and of course our suitcases not arriving home with us...

All in all we had a gorgeous time.

Much love to you all
Hayls
xxx

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Invasion of Asia

Well..... I would love to say it's truly great to be home, but I'm not sure I can wholeheartedly! ;-)

I have to say I have missed my family and friends loads (and Mia of course), but have had an amazing amazing holiday, and would give anything to be laying on that beach in Thailand right now, supping a Singha beer and eating squid and noodles... sigh.... Instead, I have arrived at work to find more than 300 emails to trawl through, it's cold and drizzling, and my tenants are moving out of my house, so I have to find new ones... oh, and our suitcases seem to be still sat in Thailand for some reason! Poopah.... For those interested, here is a very short rundown of what we got up to! Warning - look away now if you are easily bored as I am using this as a kind of reminder to self of what we did, so may be a little too detailed for most!

A big-thankyou again to Adele for looking after the house and cat so well (and stocking us up with essentials for our return - very very sweet), and Jane and Jamie for their stay too... Mia is in fact absolutely fine, and seems to have doubled in size in our absence...

Jez and Marta's apartment, Xi'an, China, - Friday 6th October - Wednesday 11th October
Friday
On early morning arrival here (we flew in from London, changing at Beijing airport), we thought that there was a bit of early morning fog around... however, as we flew across China to Xi'an, we realised that this was more than fog... it seems that the whole of China is covered with a thick layer of smog! Never again will I look at misty woodland scenes in China in quite the same way! ;-) Anyway... met at the airport by Mark's friend Jez, and his wife Marta (and their private driver!), and went back to their apartment to carsh out for a few hours (on the 17th floor of a newish block of flats in the "Hi-tech zone of the city"). We were welcomed by their crazy spaniel Frankie, and less enthusiastically by their cat Purdy (both very cute and VERY spoilt!).

After rousing ourselves later in the afternoon, we headed out for a few drinks in the bar street type area in Xi'an, and went for a very posh meal in the evening with some American friends (Marie and John) of Jez and Marta's that were in fact moving back home a couple of days later... felt a little sorry for intruding a fairly emotional meal for them all, but was too busy being bowled over by the menu to really worry about it... duck's tongues? Sea slugs? Chicken feet????? After meal went for more drinks in the bar street (got stuck into Tsing Tao, the local beer), and bizarrely bumped into Jez's mum by pure coincidence... she was on a two-week whirlwind tour of China (before staying a week with Jez after we left), and was in Xi'an a couple of nights to visit the terracotta army). Considering that Xi'an is about the size of London, was quite a feat!

Saturday
Next day, slept in again, and went to look round the Bell and Drum towers in Xi'an, did a spot of shopping around the Muslim market, and took a stroll around the mosque.

In the evening we met up with Jez's mum and went to a Portuguese restaurant, then to a cafe and a bar (ordered and drank an entire bottle of bourbon between the four of us - this is the chinese way apparently!).

Sunday
Another late get-up, but in the afternoon made up for it with a 14km cycle ride around the city wall. Gorgeous and warm weather and an amazing intro to the city... we loved this! Afterwards went for a quick shopping trip around a market nearby, and in the evening went for an 'interesting' vegetarian meal... this included false pork (including pork rind and fat made of tofu and jelly type stuff), false shrimps, and a bizarre pile of sausages hanging out of a conch shell?!

Monday
We climbed a mountain this day! Got the driver to take us out to a mountain range about 30km out of Xi'an (Hua Shan). This was a lovely, if exhausting day out... took us 2-3 hours to walk up this mountain, having got a cable car up most of it! We most have been four of around ten Westerners on the mountain that day, and we certainly attracted an awful lot of attention from the several hundred chinese there that day... the odd friendly shout of "Hello", lots of open-mouthed stares, and many many pictures taken of us (all very subtley). I think it was my shorts and sandals that did it... they had never seen such a massive expanse of white flesh!! ;-)

In the evening we went to a gorgeous Japanese restaurant. Guided to a private room with our own chef preparing our very fresh food on a hotplate in front of our table... this cost around $20 for the four of us!!! The beef here was sublime, as were the shrimps (alive in the dish waiting to go on the hotplate!), and the veggies... all cooked to perfection!

Tuesday
This was our last day in Xi'an. Went with Jez to see the terracotta army... which was great, but I have to say that I would have been disappointed if I had gone all the way to China to see it (I guess we were spoilt with Angkor Wat in Cambodia last year), and then we went to some hot springs. This was lovely... Mark, Jez and I hired a hot tub thing for part of the afternoon, and almost cooked ourselves in the boiling water coming from the natural springs! Marta and I went to a local supermarket on our return - I was bowled over by the range of goods on offer, and how much of it I didn't recognise! It made me laugh though, that an entire aisle of cooking oils contained just two small bottles of olive oil, that were about £10 a pop!

Our last night turned into something it shouldn't have, considering our early start to Shanghai the next day! Went for a meal with a couple of Jez's colleagues (this night I actually tried chicken feet! tasteless and jelly-like), and then ended up in a rather classy nightclub until 4am weds!!! (we had to be for our flight at 6am, and only made it because Jez's dog woke us up!). We had great fun in the club - drank way too much white rum, and then got involved with a drinking game with a bunch of Chinese businessmen.. "Gambe!" means bottoms up, and they really do expect you to stand by it once you have said it! Man...

Was really sad to say goodbye to Jez and Marta - really enjoyed their company... Marta was a real scream - we exchanged our own brand of English, Spanish (her native language) and Chinese, and really seemed to hit it off...

Peace Hotel, Shanghai, China - Wednesday 11th October - Friday 13th October
Wednesday
Got to this amazing and very famous hotel feeling like crap, and slept most of the afternoon... ;-) Our journey to the hotel was made interesting by the Maglev train, which travels at something like 500km/h... would have been better without the hangover. I closed my eyes...

Later in the afternoon we went for a stroll along The Bund and spent a considerable amount of time looking for a famous department store, which seems to have been demolished (there is re-building going on everywhere here!). In the evening, had the most amazing meal on the roof of one of the banks on The Bund. This was like eating at the Oxo tower in London, and despite being expensive by our standards (and deffo by Chinese standards), you would easily have paid more than four times the £70 we paid for anything like it in London. The restaurant was called M on The Bund and I highly recommend it for the views and the food... the slow cooked lamb that I had was delicious.

Thursday
Went to a bazaar and ate gorgeous steamed dumplings (and unbelievably bumped into Jez's Mum down a side street, on another leg of her tour!), sat in a tea house in a park (and got stared at plenty, again by the locals), had a look around the shopping district... did a spot of shopping in a weird arcade full of fake western gear, which was deffo there for making money out of tourists... prices had to be haggled mercilessly, since prices can be cut by 80% from your arrival in a shop to your hurried departure... we did lots of shopping here!

In the evening we went to another veggie restaurant specialising in fake meat stuffs, and got a reasonably early night in the rather lovely Peace Hotel (ready for our flight to Cambodia the next day!).

I really liked Shanghai... less polluted than Xi'an, but very much a 'big lights, big city' kinda place... not as 'old china' as Xi'an. I suppose it ties in with the way I imagine Tokyo or Hong Kong might look? I think though that two days was long enough there really...

Andy and Srey Neath's house, Phnom Penh, Cambodia - Friday 13th October - Tuesday 17th October
Friday
Spent most of the day travelling to Phnom Penh via Bangkok. I thought that the Friday 13th omen was gonna kick in for sure on the taxi journey to the airport in the morning... I closed my eyes and said my goodbyes to you all (the driver was a maniac, and ripped us off money-wise on arrival). We were met at the airport by Andy in a taxi, and went back to their place for a few drinks... went for a delicious meal in the evening in one of their local fave restaurants (including squid, eel, and heaps of steamed prawns), and had drinks in the Green Vespa bar and Zeppelin bar (a little Korean man with a huge retro record collection runs this one!).

Was lovely to see Andy and Srey Neath again, and felt like yesterday that we were there (last year!). They seem to have been adopted by a tiny skinny little kitten that we christened "Pky", which is Cambodia for "star" (as she was all black with tiny white socks and a star shaped white splodge on her chest). Pets are not entirely embraced in Cambodia, so her chances of survival may be remote... but we enjoyed making a fuss of her. In a bid to make her into a rat catcher of sorts though, it is unlikely that she will be dining on Whiskers or Felix...

Saturday
In the morning we ate a thai breakfast (pad thai for me!) and went via motorbike to the killing fields (Choeung Ek) just outside Phnom Penh. Words cannot describe this place, and I'm not sure I could do it justice... you would have to see it to believe it really. There are still teeth, bones and bundles of clothes in the earth as you walk around it... its not really like any Western museums of the same ilk, but then again I guess this place is pretty unique... In the afternoon, Mark, Srey Neath and I let Andy do some marking (he is a local teacher), and went to visit the Russian Market in Phnom Penh. An amazing place... full of bargains!

In the evening, we attempted a Korean restaurant that Andy had been recommended, which proved expensive and full of Koreans listening to a woman doing some form of terrible singing! On that note we duly downed our Anchor beers and took a tuk-tuk back to the delicious restaurant we had been to the night before!

Sunday
We took the motorbikes some 40km out of town to a lovely mountain area (a very sore bottom from the bike seat, and sunburnt legs!), with some temples on top (the name escapes me right now).

This was a pretty unique place, which attracts hundreds of Cambodians on a Sunday. The whole area is covered in food stalls, selling a bewildering array of freshly cooked foods (some recognisable, but many not), with 'picnic platforms'. These platforms are shaded areas off the ground, which you pay to use - they give you bowls of rice and cutlery to eat with your picnic food, and serve you drinks... you also get the use of several local children for free - who will fan you while you eat, and generally hang around and threaten to sing or do comedy shows unless you give them food... ;-) On the platform next to us, a large local family were paying two very young kids to put on a singing show (the actions were amazing), and they paid them in beer and rice... this obviously made the performances more enthusiastic on the children's part! It was at this meal that I sampled one of the most delicious things I ate whilst away; stuffed frogs! I kid you not, it was delicious! We also had grilled fish, some sort of whitebait stuff, and a whole roast chicken (head too!). Thankfully, Srey Neath couldn't seem to find the deepfried 'ants' she was looking for (I kid you not)...

After lunch we sauntered up the mountain to see the temples on top (kids in tow), one of which was being heavily guarded by a rather furious looking monkey. Mark had the kids in stitches by playing them fart noises on his phone, which increased our crowd of child followers...

In the evening we ate at a more western-style restaurant (I actually had roast chicken dinner - my first spuds in days!) and had a few sedate drinks in The Stranger Bar.

Monday
Andy had to work today, so we spent the day with Srey Neath which was lovely. Had a few rain showers, but did not stop us from making the most of the day. Went to the Russian Market again for a few more last minute bargains (and some beef noodles for brekkie), then hired a tuk-tuk driver for the day (just $10!!). We went to visit Srey Neath's parents and family, Mark had his haircut in a shop on the river front whilst I had a manicure there (I even look like I have girl's nails!), we bought Srey Neath an English dictionary as a leaving pressie from a bookstore, and then went to the Central Market for lunch (khmer style fishy noodles, which were amazing), and bought fresh fish from the market for a bbq we had in the evening in Andy and Srey Neath's garden. Fresh squid, live crabs, prawns, mackrel, and fresh sweetcorn... delicious, and not quite like the fish counter at Tesco or even Lowestoft fish market.

In the evening we had said bbq, and went for a cruise down the Tonle Sap river for an hour or so - very civilised!

We were VERY sorry to leave Cambodia, and would have liked to stay longer...

No more time to update this, will update this with our Thailand trip tomorrow! Sorry for being so boring!

Much love
Hayls
xxxx

PS. If you know of anyone that wants to rent a house in Norwich, please let me know ASAP!

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

Izzy Wizzy...

Yesterday had a massively busy day, both at home and work! Managed to pack a bit more stuff in the morning before work (trying unsuccessfully to reduce the amount of stuff I take on holiday, but finding it difficult!). At lunch time went for a 3 mile run around the lake, and managed to get some keys cut for Jane and Jamie who are looking after the house for me, along with Adele (cat duty), Noel, Kurt, Jessica and several other people! I suspect that the house will look rather crowded some days and nights!! :-)

After work I went to get everything waxed off from the neck upwards and the waist downwards (gulp) - this was my first time for waxing, and I think I took it rather well... I think that my pain seemed insignificant when the lovely girl performing the procedure told me that her dad had died in a tragic car accident just 9 weeks previously. It kind of made my horreur at having my hair ripped out by its roots seem a little pathetic!

Last night played netball in the pouring rain (how hardcore am I?!!), went home and cooked dinner for Mark and I (quorn 'minced beef' pies, with veggies and veggie gravy), cleaned the house some more, and we managed to get the canoe in the shed in the pitch dark... have loads of washing to get dry for holiday still (why is it that watched clothes never dry?!) and am generally panicking about packing and the number of errands I have to do before we leave!!!!

Anyway... have much to do at work - got to get some stuff released before the day is out!
Lots of love, and you all take care. Will try and keep in touch.
Hayls
xxxx

Monday, October 02, 2006

Wedster Weekend


Had another nice weekend...

Friday night
Did sweet fanny adams, as was still recovering from Thursday night. Cooked Tuna, Rice and Leek gratin (another weight watchers piece of mastery) and went to bed at 8:30pm!!!

Saturday
Had a packed day! Got up early to greet the builders and make them coffee etc... Mark ran me to train station, and was met off the train in Norwich by cousin Mark (very handy!). We met up with Lindsey in the city, and did a bit of a mooch around the shops. I bought a rather fantastic fuchsia pink Samsonite suitcase, which I am hoping will be fit for many years to come! Its the most I have ever paid for a bit of luggage (a cool £79 no less), but am hoping it will last longer than the hundreds of other cheap cases I have bought in the past - the last of which I had to wrap sellotape around to get home! In the afternoon I went to get my hair cut at the much missed Lauren Reeves salon (she is certainly worth travelling for, which I had discovered in the last few months, to my loss).

In the evening, Mark joined us and we went along to Nicki and Carlos's wedding reception at the Maid's Head hotel in Norwich... this was a really fun event (much drinking, socialising, laughing, crying (not me) and general wedding stuff ensued!). We didn't make it to bed at Mark and Lindsey's until 4:30am, and cousin Mark made some much needed bacon sandwiches in the morning. Nicki and Carlos seemed really happy (if not a leeetle bit pished), which is of course the main thing!

Sunday
Headed over to my parents for the afternoon, and Mo cooked one of her fantastic roast dinners (I do miss a roast as Mark is veggie, and cooking one for just me seems too much bother!). Dad, Mark and I went into town and had a little look around, and then went to Tracy's house to see the progress there. Tracy says that she is due to move in in November, but it looks a long way off being ready to me! I guess though that there are up to seven guys there who are doing it as a full time job, so it *might* be done by then! Little Henry and Oscar were gorgeous, and Mark kept Henry amused for the afternoon by pretending to eat his toys and also pretending that he ate little boys when really hungry (but only on Mondays). Little Henry nearly killed us with laughter by whispering to my Mum that he wanted to know what day it was! (you had to be there). I'm not sure he will be constantly enquiring after Mark's whereabouts anymore (although he may want to know *exactly* where he is at any given time, just in case....). Oscar seemed well, although he has got a bit of a rash on his face at the moment (bless him), and did have a bit of a screaming fit when he left. Tracy certainly has her hands full on her own!!!

Trying to get work done today before I leave for holiday, and have lots of errands to do at lunch for holiday too! I'm not ready!!!!!!! :-\

Hayls
xxx

BTW. Janine had some gorgeous piccies done of little Lola (shown above). She looks gorgeous!